Practical Ways To Personal Development 1 – The Way Forward

There is always a room for change and development. There is no static position in life, it is either you are appreciating or depreciating, so let no one thinks he has arrived. The room for personal development is the largest in the world but with few occupants. People are always comfortably found at the basement where it seems there is no stress or fatigue ignoring the top which seems difficult to arrive but makes the future sure. Actually it is more risky or deadly   to remain at the basement. The secret to the top of the ladder is simple; personal development.

People don't make formidable progress outside the quest to improve on what they do and even in their at large. So it is all about progressiveness.

Understanding personal development

Personal development is the deliberate steps taken to improve on yourself and in what you do. It is an all-round betterment. Physically, mentally, emotionally, morally spiritually, psychologically, socially and so on. It has to do with working on what you know, do and say; and how you handle situations arising from them. It also includes learning something new; skills, manners, mindset, acquiring degrees and knowledge, etc. It is an idea to always get better in responsibility and leadership.

Tools for development

Seminars and functions – they will help build and improve on you. Spend money and time on yourself because you need a better you to deliver.

Read good books on Leadership, public speaking and services – good readers are better leaders. The ways out of ignorance are books. Not just some pornographic or sexual or romance but life changing trial blazing books.

Learn mannerism, etiquettes and cultivate good morals – life is dynamic you don’t have to rely on the old orthodox methods of living or doing things. You have to better your life. Lots of people lack manners mostly those in the entertainment industries – you are not better than some bunch of ignorant, unlearn and irritating ill-mannered fellows. Sorry to say but is always what you look in the sight of others when you display pride, lack of respect and well cultured manners.

Have a good sense of dressing – you will be addressed the way you are dressed. You can not be more intelligent than the way you look.

Get more degrees and be studious – always try to go up in schooling and be studious.

Be result oriented and focus – always produce the expected result when necessary. And you can’t do that if you are not well trained, informed and well guided. Distracted people can’t go far so stay on your assignment to get good result. Let your mind be on how to get the job done in good fate.

Dedication to duty and hard work – dedication to duty and hard and going the extra mile in getting things done will certainly put you ahead of others.

Be ready to change and take correction – lots of people hate when you point out their wrongs. So they have every cause to defend and attack when they are corrected. You can’t improve if you are like this.

Always solve problems and take responsibility – always try to clear your table and leaving nothing till the next day. When something goes wrong don’t hang it on something or someone else. That is the way to get it right.

Develop new skills – outside your career what other skills do you have; singing, composition, word processing, AutoCAD, Soft ware engineering, iron and steel craftsmanship, welder etc?

Build a powerful mindset – change your mindset about life and result generally; it is to better humanity and serve the purpose of imparting life. And not just to put money in your pocket and buy cars and build gigantic buildings. That will certainly come later but focus on the people then you will get it right.

Work on your IQ – read books to develop the mind and build a very good sense of judgment and logicality.

Not untill everyone looks up to you to provide the solution to their problems, you have not properly developed. Let them see you as the most capable person to handle certain responsibilities. what ever you do, do it well and perfectly well

19 core areas to improve or work and focus on

Ø  Behavior

Ø  Emotion

Ø  Mindset

Ø  Leadership ability

Ø  Talents/Skills

Ø  Sense of dressing

Ø  Relationship

Ø  Vocabulary

Ø  Poor traits and weaknesses

Ø  Sense of value

Ø  Destructive appetite (shun Voracious living)

Ø  Arrogance   and competitive spirit

Ø  Manners of approach

Ø  Integrity issues

Ø  Procrastination

Ø  Sacrifice and prudent in spending

Ø  Resourcefulness

Ø  Intelligence

Ø  Discipline and dedication to work